First day of school: Looking back, it makes me laugh, but I remember that on the first day of school I was very nervous. I thought, “What if I don’t make any friends?” “What if no one talks to me?” “Who am I going to sit with in the cafeteria?” Things like that. My host mom accompanied me to school that day. Before going to the classroom, I went to the principal’s office so that he and two other teachers could meet me. My host mom and the principal talked a little, and then they accompanied me to my classroom. I knew I was going to have to introduce myself in front of the whole class, so I kept going over what I had to say in my mind because I didn’t want to make a mistake. I introduced myself, said my name, age, and nationality, and everyone applauded. The teacher told me where to sit (in the back), and as I walked to my seat, I could feel all eyes on me. Then my host mom and the teacher left, so I was alone in my seat. I could see everyone talking quietly while looking at me. To be honest, I didn’t know what to do. “Should I try to talk to someone?” My mind was racing, thinking about what to do, but then someone came up to me, started talking to me, and gave me a gift with a note.
The thing is, throughout that day, I gradually started talking to more people. At first, they didn’t know whether to approach me, but when they saw others doing so, they came over too, and I ended up making lots of friends! When I walked down the hallway, everyone stared at me, some introduced themselves, and others came from other classrooms to see me and introduce themselves. Over the next few days, I received lots of gifts (sweets).
I think it’s normal to be nervous on the first day of school because you don’t know what to expect, but in the end there’s no reason to be afraid. Both my classmates and my teachers are very friendly and help me when I don’t understand something.
Normal day: Every day I get up at 7:40, my classes don’t start until 9:00, but I’m very slow to get ready. When I finish getting ready, I leave my house and walk 10 minutes to school, it’s a little tiring but I like walking. I arrive at my classroom and have time to talk with my friends for 10 or 15 minutes before the first class starts. A day I have 7 classes that last between 45 to 50 minutes, with 15 minutes of break between each class. At 1 pm I have my break, that’s when I go with my friends to the cafeteria for lunch (like 2 times a day, at 1 pm and at 7/8 pm) (the lunch is very good) and when we finish we go to the auditorium where there are microphones, pianos, drums and guitars and we start singing while some play the guitar or the piano. Then we return to the classroom to take the next classes. In class I understand that it’s obvious that I don’t understand many things, so they tell me that as long as I participate from time to time and answer as much as I can is enough. Classes end at 5:30 pm, which is when I return home (some friends live close to where I live so sometimes we return together) and I arrive around 5:45 pm. Since I get home I have free time. I always rest a little, watch videos etc… and I have dinner around 7:30/8 pm. After dinner I like to go out for a walk at night in the city (I haven’t gone out with my friends because this week they have exams so they spend their time studying in special academies that finish until 9 pm). But I almost always see a friend when he leaves the academy and we talk, buy some street food, go to the park etc… I return home around 10/11 pm and I go to sleep around 1 am.
Experience: The truth is that going on exchange can seem scary, but living in a country where everything is different, with different food, people, culture, language… makes life more fun because every day you encounter something new. Koreans and Asians in general are always portrayed as very serious and upright and that they only concentrate on their studies… but the truth is that it is not true, quite the opposite, they are very kind people, who like to have fun and it is certain that they will ask you many questions about your country, some will even learn phrases in your language to make you feel at home for a moment. One of the things you learn when you go on exchange is that even though the culture, food, language may be different, in the end we are all people full of ideas, dreams and experiences that we want to live and that is something that is priceless.