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What your host family wants you to know before you arrive

You’ve been waiting for this moment for months. You’ve completed your application, said goodbye to your friends, packed your suitcase, and finally boarded the plane. Soon, you’ll meet the people you’ll be living with for the next several months.

And that’s exciting.

But it can also be a little scary. You might be wondering what your host family will be like. Will they like you? Will you know what to say? What if you do something wrong? What if you don’t feel comfortable right away?

Here’s something you might not realize: Your host family is probably wondering some of the same things about you.

They are meeting you for the first time too. They may be excited, curious, and even a little nervous about welcoming someone new into their home. So before you arrive, here are a few things your host family probably wants you to know.

You don’t have to be perfect

You don’t need to arrive knowing exactly what to say or how to behave. You are entering a completely new environment, and your host family understands that. They don’t expect you to know every tradition, understand every expression, or immediately feel completely at home.

You’re going to make mistakes. You might misunderstand something. You might forget a new routine. You might accidentally use the wrong word in the local language. That’s okay. Your exchange year is about learning, and your host family will be part of that learning process.

They are curious about you

Before you arrive, you may spend a lot of time thinking about your host family. What do they like? What is their house like? What do they do on weekends? But remember that they’re probably curious about you too.

They want to know about your hometown, your family, your school, your favorite foods, your hobbies, and what life is like where you come from. Don’t be afraid to share those things. Your culture is one of the reasons they decided to host an exchange student in the first place.

Ask questions

When you first arrive, you might notice that your host family’s routines are different from what you’re used to. Maybe dinner is at a different time. Maybe everyone takes turns doing certain chores. Maybe there are rules about using shared spaces or spending time with friends.

Instead of worrying about whether you’re doing everything correctly, ask. Most host families would much rather have you say, “How does this work?” than sit quietly because you’re afraid of making a mistake. Asking questions is also one of the easiest ways to start conversations and get to know each other.

Speak up about what you need

Being respectful doesn’t mean keeping every thought to yourself. If you’re tired, confused, homesick, or uncomfortable with something, it’s important to communicate. Your host family can’t always know what you’re thinking.

They may assume everything is fine simply because you haven’t said otherwise. Talking openly gives everyone a chance to understand each other and find solutions. Communication can feel difficult at first, especially in another language, but it becomes easier with practice.

Give yourself time to feel at home

You might imagine that the moment you meet your host family, everything will feel natural. Sometimes it does. Sometimes it takes a little longer. Both are completely normal.

Living with a new family is a big adjustment for everyone. You’re learning their routines while they’re learning yours. Over time, small conversations and everyday experiences start building a relationship. You don’t need to become best friends on day one. Give the relationship time to grow.

Your host family isn’t just providing you with a room and a place to stay. They’re inviting you into their everyday life. That might mean family dinners, weekend activities, birthdays, local traditions, grocery shopping, movie nights, or simply spending time together at home.

You won’t necessarily love every activity, and that’s okay. But saying yes to opportunities to participate can help you feel connected much faster. Some of your favorite memories may come from experiences you never expected.

Bring your own culture with you

Cultural exchange goes both ways. Your host family will introduce you to their traditions, food, language, and way of life. But you also have something valuable to share. Maybe you can cook a meal from home, teach your host siblings a few words in your language, share music you love, or explain a holiday your family celebrates.

You don’t have to give a presentation about your culture. Just be yourself. The everyday things that seem completely normal to you may be fascinating to someone from another country.

They know you’re going to miss home

Homesickness is a normal part of many exchange experiences. Your host family won’t expect you to forget about your family and friends back home just because you’ve arrived in a new country. They understand that you’re going to miss people. You don’t have to hide that.

At the same time, try to give yourself opportunities to become involved in your new life. Spending all your free time on your phone talking to people back home can sometimes make it harder to settle into your new environment. Finding a balance can help you stay connected to home while also being present in your new life.

You don’t have to figure everything out alone

Starting an exchange year can feel like a huge responsibility, but you don’t have to handle every challenge by yourself. Through ASSE/World Heritage, students have support throughout their exchange experience. Your host family is there to help you adjust to daily life, and local support is available if you need guidance with a situation.

If something is worrying you, speaking up early is usually the best thing you can do. Asking for help isn’t a failure. It’s part of learning how to navigate your experience.

When you first arrive, it’s impossible to know exactly what your relationship with your host family will become. But many students discover that the people who were strangers at the beginning of their exchange year become some of the most important people they met abroad.

A year gives you a lot of time to share ordinary moments, celebrate important occasions, overcome challenges, and create memories together. And when the exchange year eventually comes to an end, you may find that saying goodbye is much harder than you imagined.

Because somewhere along the way, your host family stopped feeling like your “host family.” They simply became family.

Final thought

If you’re about to begin your exchange year, remember this: Your host family isn’t expecting you to arrive as the perfect exchange student. They don’t expect you to know everything. They don’t expect you to understand every word. They don’t expect you to feel completely at home immediately. They simply want to get to know you.

So arrive with an open mind, ask questions, share your culture, participate when you can, and give yourself, and your host family, time to adjust.

The rest will come naturally. And who knows?

The people waiting for you at the airport might just become the people you can’t imagine saying goodbye to at the end of your exchange year.

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